In the hustle and bustle of the new school year, we often forget to stop and take pause of all the traditions that surround our students. More importantly though, do you ever reflect on the role traditions play in helping to shape students and their school communities? My younger son shared a video with me of his school’s Founder’s Day Convocation and commented on how much he loved watching “the march” and cheering for the first-year students amongst the hum of the bagpipes. It got me thinking about how school traditions stand as pillars of continuity, creating a bridge between the past, present, and future. These cherished rituals hold a special place in the hearts of students, offering far more than just a sense of familiarity. They provide valuable lessons in unity, discipline, and the power of shared experiences that extend far beyond the classroom.

First and foremost, school traditions bring students together! Whether it's a spirited class rivalry during an annual outdoors event such as “the rope pull” during my prep school years or a heartwarming ceremony signing a school’s honor code for new students, these moments create a sense of belonging that transcends individual differences. In an age where distractions abound and connections can be fleeting, traditions offer a tangible anchor to a community that understands, supports, and celebrates one another.

Moreover, traditions teach discipline and commitment. Yes, discipline! Preparing for a school oration, such as The Greenwood School students who rehearse (and rehearse!) to amazingly recite The Gettysburg Address from memory.

Or perhaps mastering your school’s beloved hymns, often included in weekly all-school meetings or annual gatherings, such as “Canterbury School’s “Lessons & Carols” where their school sings their Hallelujah Chorus. Regardless of the performance, each tradition requires dedication and perseverance. These activities impart a valuable lesson that excellence is a product of consistent effort over time. The very act of adhering to these rituals teaches patience, teamwork, and the rewards of hard work, qualities that prepare students for success in various facets of life.

Beyond the immediate benefits, I’ve been asking myself what all is to be learned from school traditions? As I’ve thought back on all the traditions I’ve personally experienced (both from my boarding school and college days), I’m realizing there's much to be learned from the concept of tradition itself. Rituals often have deep-rooted cultural or historical significance, reminding us of the importance of heritage and the lessons of the past. By participating in these rituals, students learn to honor traditions that have stood the test of time and gain a better understanding of their own place in the larger tapestry of their school community.

Furthermore, traditions teach us the value of continuity. With so much change afoot in our world, there's comfort in knowing that some things remain constant. This sense of stability fosters a feeling of security and can mitigate the anxieties that often accompany transitions and change. For example, many independent schools have a “Head of School Day” or a “Mountain Day” where students come to learn that one fall day, their classes will be canceled and the entire school community will conquer a mountain together. Indeed a grounding and rejuvenating memorable experience for all!

In essence, school traditions offer students a chance to learn beyond the textbooks, technology and classroom. They provide experiential lessons that may be far greater and deeper! By participating in these rituals, students not only create wonderful memories but also develop qualities that serve them well throughout their lives. As parents, I encourage you to celebrate the colorful array of traditions that your students are embracing at their schools and colleges. Let’s remember that they are more than just events; they are a tapestry of lessons, emotions, and connections that will forever enrich their educational journey!