The “First Choice Letter” Dilemma: To Write or Not To Write Admissions
If you’ve had a student apply to private school before, or if you have familiarity with private school admissions, you’ve likely heard of ‘first choice letters.’ These letters tend to be a highly debated topic in the private school admissions world.
In this article we’re breaking down what you need to know about first choice letters and if they might be a good move for your student.
What are these letters and should your student write one?
When some students and families are certain that a school their student has applied to is their top choice, they might send a letter to the admissions office expressing their interest in the school. This is often a way students indicate the school is their first choice of all their schools.
We won’t ever stop a family from sending one of these letters, especially because it helps the admission team know that this school is one your student can see themselves thriving at. Plus, the school won’t want to admit students who aren’t excited to be there! These letters convey enthusiasm and commitment.
If you’re unsure if you should send one, keep in mind that it’s a personal touch that can go a long way. The admissions staff are people, too! They love accepting members into their school community who genuinely want to be there.
Should My Student Always Send a Letter?
The short answer is no. If you’re sending a generic letter expressing interest to a lot of private schools, the admissions team is going to be able to tell. Also, keep in mind that many admissions officers are friends with one another and may talk with one another, comparing notes on their admissions season, their pool of applicants and what they are seeing, receiving and hearing. If your student is torn between a few schools and does not have a definitive first choice school, we’d suggest holding off on sending one until your student has a strong feeling towards one school.
What to Include In Your Letter
If you decide that sending one of these letters is something you want to do, here are a few things you can include. There’s no wrong answer of what to include, but here are a few ideas to get started:
Clearly articulate and answer why you want to attend this school
Touch upon why this school will make you a better student and person
Include details of things that stuck out to you during your campus visit
Highlight specific aspects such as academic programs, faculty, campus culture or unique opportunities that resonate with your goals
Emphasize what you will bring to the campus and what you are most looking forward to if accepted
Just remember to keep it personal and as I always recommend, be authentic! If your student is in middle or high-school, make sure they write their own! As I tell my own kids, just be your true self!
Don’t Overthink it, and Get it Sent!
January and February are the months when admissions teams are carefully reviewing applications. Now is the time to write your letter! Given admissions officers are slammed right now and short on time, keep it sincere, specific, and concise and you’ll be golden!
If you think you’d like to send a letter to a school but you’re not sure which one yet, schedule some time to reflect on all your options. What will truly be best for your student and family?